From making tiny homes for bugs to obsessing over door stoppers and elevators, todays youngest children are proving that curiosity comes in all forms, according to new research.
A survey of 2,000 parents of kids ages 0 to 6 found that many of their childrens most unique fascinations center on the natural world — from rainwater and worms to the weather and even “extinct fish.” Others fixate on more imaginative or mechanical interests, like knights, drums, or how elevator buttons work.
The survey, conducted by Talker Research on behalf of Lightbridge Academy, explored how parents nurture curiosity while keeping kids safe. It found that parents field an average of 46 questions a day — and admit theyre stumped 35% of the time. Among the most unusual questions asked: “If time had a smell, what would it smell like?”, “How long can a hippo run faster than an elephant?”, and “Where do dreams go when we wake up?”
More than half of parents (52%) said their first reaction to such questions is simply wondering how their child came up with them, while 42% prefer to find the answers together and 27% research them on their own. Nearly all parents (91%) agree its important to encourage their childs natural curiosity and interests.
But that curiosity often comes with a challenge: balancing exploration with safety. Parents say “be careful” an average of 27 times per day and “dont touch that” another 25 times. Almost all (97%) believe its important their child understands why theyre being told to be cautious. More than half (55%) explain the reason immediately after an incident, while another 30% do so within minutes.
Even so, 38% of parents admit they lie awake at night worrying whether they handled those moments the right way. Most say their caution stems from wanting to build safe habits (57%), though nearly half (45%) admit “be careful” is often just a reflex rather than a response to actual danger (34%).
“Todays parents are juggling a lot,” said Gigi Schweikert, CEO of Lightbridge Academy. “Its no secret that they worry about their childs safety, 75% of parents say theyre concerned on any given day, yet these well-meaning instincts may unintentionally hinder the curiosity and resilience theyre hoping to instill in their children.”
Nearly all parents (97%) describe their children as curious, with 71% calling them very curious. Another 77% believe their kids are even more inquisitive than they were at that age. When parents were growing up, the most common phrase they heard was “because I said so” (61%), a response that only 49% recalled reacting positively to. Today, just 22% of parents say they use that phrase often, preferring gentler guidance like “be careful” (71%) — and three in four report their kids respond positively.
“Even before theyve stepped into a classroom, parents can see early sparks of curiosity and creativity in their children — passions that can one day grow into future careers,” said Schweikert. “In fact, 92% of parents say its important for their child to develop STEAM skills, which can be nurtured in countless ways. By encouraging exploration and hands-on learning, parents are helping raise the next generation of resilient thinkers, innovators and scientists.”