Alec Baldwin Reveals Risqué Advice for Intimacy in the Bedroom: ‘Take Control’

Alec Baldwin has a few tips if you’re looking to get lucky.

During the Tuesday, December 2, episode of The Adam Friedland Show, the 67-year-old actor asked host Adam Friedland, “When you’re in bed with your girlfriend…[how do] you know the time is right?”

“When she lets me,” the comedian, 38, responded. “She’s the girl. That’s the rules, right?”

“You don’t pin her on the ground?” Baldwin then asked.

“She wants you to take control,” the Rust actor later added. “You go to reach for her in any curve you want to squeeze, don’t take no for an answer. Just shove her on the bed.”

As Friedland continued to ask the father of eight — who is married to wife Hilaria Baldwin — more about his idea of intimacy, Baldwin insisted on being confident.

“Do you think if I learned how to kill someone with my bare hands, I’d get my respect from my girlfriend?” Friedland pondered.

“What is this? A Hitchcock movie? What the f**k are you talking about?” Baldwin responded. “If you don’t know what I mean by this, then you’re hopeless: just take charge. … Walk up to her blouse, and you’re going to rip it open.”

“I think she’d get mad at me for ripping her shirt,” Friedland replied.

“Get a box of shirts,” Baldwin said. “Do it every night.”

Baldwin insisted that the man “take charge,” including when it comes to making “the reservation” for dinner. “You come home, you have sex before and after dinner,” he added.

Before the actor married the former Dancing With the Stars contestant in 2012, he reportedly had a very explosive relationship with ex-wife Kim Basinger, with whom he shares daughter Ireland Baldwin.

The actors — who met while working on the 1991 film The Marrying Man — wed on August 19, 1993, and welcomed Ireland on October 23, 1995. They separated on December 5, 2000, and divorced on September 3, 2002.